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Abigail Hope Vernon joined our family on August 10th, 2007 at 10:30 am, at 21.5 inches and 7 pounds 13 ounces. We are amazed by her every day and are so grateful for this healthy, beautiful baby girl.

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Diaperless Update

Wednesday, November 7, 2007

You may remember a post a few months back about our plans to "go diaperless". Many of you have been asking how it's going, so I thought I'd take a few minutes to fill you in.

First of all, "diaperless" is actually a bit of a misnomer for us. I guess that's why so many people using this method prefer the term "Elimination Communication". While we're at home in the city, we use a combination of cloth and disposable diapers; cloth during the day and disposables at night. The cloth diapers (without plastic covers) allow us to really tune in to Abi's timing, since we can feel immediately when she is wet. Also, the cloth diapers provide a bit of extra motivation for us to pay attention to her signals and give her plenty of potty opportunities, because, let's be honest here, no one likes to get peed on! When we're in the village, Abi doesn't wear diapers at all during the day, only a loose fitting pants. We use these because all our laundry in the village is done by hand and absorbent cloth diapers would be a real pain! However, even in the village we put her in disposables at night, because we all like sleep just a little to much to be fussing with anything else!

We started sitting Abi on the toilet for her morning-pee when she was just seven days old, so, as you can see in the pictures, she's pretty comfortable with the whole process. In fact, we suspect she even likes it! Paul and I really like it as well; it's such a good fit for our lives, especially village life! It is so amazing to practice EC in the village where it is second nature to everyone (except us, that is!) For example, whenever I'm letting Abi "go potty" in the village, one of the young girls will automatically run to the well for a pan of water to wash her bottom with. Honestly, I probably wouldn't even think to ask for water, but theses little girls totally know the drill because it's absolutely normal for them! So many aspects of our lives seem odd to our friends in the village, so it's really nice to do something that's viewed as completely normal!

Beyond enjoying the cultural relevance of the EC method, we have to admit that we really love not having to deal with too many poopy diapers! By now, I would say that we catch about 90% of "twosies"; in fact, in the last two months I can only think of 4 instances where we had to change a poopy a diaper! And now that Abi is starting to have stinkier, sticker grown-up-baby poops (I know you all wanted to know that), we're especially happy that most of that poo goes directly in the toilet!

For those of you who are still skeptical, here's proof! I think she's about 6 weeks old in this video.



Little Abi (about two weeks old) going potty at home in Chiang Rai!Going potty at home in the villageAbi going potty outside before her bath.



Comments on "Diaperless Update"

Blogger Christy said ::

I have been waiting for this post. I have wanted to ask so many times. All I can say is WOW! I for sure thought you guys would break down at some point especially in the beginning. You guys are amazing, you have good support and well....it works. I bet by the time she is walking she will be potty trained, it will just be second nature for her.

Please do another post like this when she is like 9 months, personally I don't need the picture's, but I'm glad you did because I had a hard time visualizing it in my head. I think I will try and put Lincoln on the toilet and see what he does.
take care, we are praying for your family.

November 11, 2007 at 9:46 PM  

Blogger leilani fumiko said ::

yes! i love the video, especially the last few seconds. lol! =)

November 12, 2007 at 11:47 AM  

Anonymous Anonymous said ::

all i can say, is that in about 13 years, Abi wont be to happy with you both for putting that video on the internet!

December 1, 2007 at 7:49 AM  

Blogger jeanie said ::

Came by the way of a comment on another blog that had your link.

Congratulations and good luck - we did the same with our daughter, and it was marvellous not to have to go through the whole "potty training" problems others seemed to find.

Sure - there are still a few accidents if they are too busy as toddlers, but never having them "unlearn" what their body needs really makes it easy.

June 25, 2008 at 7:31 PM  

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